Matt was kind enough to share his proposal story.
"I had the ring in my pocket all evening, but no real plan of how I was going to give it to Ellen. Allie had just dropped the ring off to me that day, and I hadn't properly thought of some big flashy romantic way to propose - I just wanted to do it. I remember having my hand in my pocket on the couch, making sure it wasn't going to fall out. Looking back it must have looked pretty suss - the me clutching my pocket for hours while we were watching TV and having dinner.
Eventually we were in bed, watching The Office. The exchange before I proposed went something like this:
Matt: "You want desert."
Ellen "Yeah can I..."
Matt: "Have frozen raspberries."
Ellen: "Yeah but..."
Matt: "The fancy ones, not the supermarket brand ones."
Ellen: "And can..."
Matt: "You have them in a mug, not a bowl."
Matt: "Only fill the mug 3/4, not fully."
Matt: "A teaspoon, not a tablespoon."
Ellen: "Thenk yewwww."
I went into the kitchen and figured, if anything, that's the perfect time to ask someone to spend their life with you. It probably comes off as homebody-esque and cliche, but finishing sentences and knowing exactly what someone wants at any point in time while watching one of your favourite shows together... that's pretty much what couples do. It's not a cinematic romance, but it's real and that's what was important to me.
So I came back with my hands behind my back and said pick a hand. She picked one, and it had the fancy frozen raspberries filled 3/4 up with. I said "Pick the other hand", which she did, and I got down on one knee and said "Do you wanna get married?". There weren't candles, there wasn't a song, there wasn't a grand gesture. It was us being us, with a beautiful ring which was perfect.
Looking back I think the ring is like that story. I didn't know what I wanted it to look like, but I knew I'd know it when I saw it. And Allie was such an integral part of that. I wanted it to look vintage, but be brand new. I wanted personality in it, not clean cut. And it's honestly perfect. It's ours, and no one else has it".
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